7th Grade Warning Signs of Unhealthy/Abusive Relationships

Control- One dating partner makes all the decisions and tells the other what to do, what to wear, or who to spend time with. He or she is unreasonably jealous and/or tries to isolate the other partner from his or her friends and family.

Hostility- One dating partner picks a fight with or antagonizes the other dating partner. This may lead to one dating partner changing his or her behavior to avoid upsetting the other.

Manipulation- Actions a partner takes to try to control the other, usually in a deceptive or harmful way. Psychological manipulation involves pressure to change behaviors or beliefs by applying deceptive or distorted tactics.

Dishonesty- One dating partner lies to or keeps information from the other.

Disrespect- One dating partner makes fun of the opinions and interests of the other partner or destroys something that belongs to the partner.

Dependence- One dating partner feels he or she “cannot live without” the other. He or she may threaten to do something drastic if the relationship ends.

Intimidation- One dating partner tries to control aspects of the other's life by making the other partner fearful or timid. One dating partner may attempt to keep his or her partner from friends and family or threaten violence or a break-up.

Physical violence- One partner uses force to get his or her way (such as hitting, slapping, grabbing, or shoving).

Sexual violence- One dating partner pressures or forces the other into sexual activity against his or her will or without consent.